I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.
Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer. I know if a girl seems unsure of herself in bed, it gets distracting and starts to feel awkward.
I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy.
There is nothing more ghastly than makeup run amuck in the morning after spending the night together. Women tell me that they feel more pressure to settle down because they can't have children as easily past a certain age.
I don't feel pressure in that sense, but I do fear that my appearance and my "game" (not that either are working for me presently) will fade as I get older.
Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.
You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay.
It's fun being one of the few guys in my group of friends who hasn't yet found love, but at the same time I wonder what is wrong with me..I'm trying to decide if time is running out.