If you arrive on a date with an agenda wrapped in anxiety you will create an instant barrier that won’t allow things to flow.
All sorts of things have opened up - theatres, restaurants,bars and even bike lanes. In the immortal words of Dr Seuss, 'oh the places you'll go... Cleaning out is cathartic, even when you havent had a breakup!
It actually gives you a lot more flexibility about dating different types of people too.